Our problem was never commitment or negligence. Our problem was and still is extremism in one of the two directions. Staying in the middle is a concept that we have not mastered dealing with yet..
We have gone to extremes in generosity and turned it into waste and extravagance. We have gone to extremes in advice and turned it into intimidation and intimidation.
We went to extremes in love and it became possession and possessiveness
We became extremists in fear and gave him the reins of our lives, becoming his slaves.